Strength and healing in marriage struggles

I pray that our Heavenly Father guides me with my being belittle at times by my spouse. I have been patient and try not to start an argument because it seems they refuse to see fault in their actions. I try to rationalize since he’s having some health concerns. I don’t know how to stop from feeling so rejected. I pray Our Lord will soften his heart and help me gain strength..,through his word . Amen 🙏.